Does coffee really affect me negatively?
The only way to truly know if coffee and caffeine (found in white, black and green tea, including matcha tea) negatively impact your health, is to give it up and see how you feel.
To say outright, without having tried, that it does not impact you, might be a skewed assumption, probably stemming from fear and denial.
It’s normal to be in denial about caffeine.
After all, it is the world’s most used stimulant and, let me just say: It is a drug.
Because you crave it when you don’t have it. You feel good when you have it. You get withdrawal when you stop it.
It’s the same as being addicted to alcohol, cocaine, opioid painkillers, gambling, or sex.
I wrote a detailed article about how caffeine impacts your hormones – check it out.
If you feel like you are ready to quit, this blog post is a good follow-up piece.
First, let me tell you why I decided to kick this addiction.
What led to me pulling the plug on ANYTHING caffeinated
As much as I like to think that I’m a recovered Type A personality, at times, that might not be true.
The past 12 months have been busy.
After doing countless re-writes and recipe tweaks of my new protocol cookbook Cooking for Hormone Balance, I then went on to create a new online program called Herbs for Balance (with two herbalists) which took 300 hours to develop (just on my part). If you’ve done any of my programs, you know how well produced they are.
At the end of August 2017, I had a double hip replacement, and just 14 days after that surgery, we went into a full launch mode of the herbal program. It’s impossible for you to see what goes on at the backend, but my team would tell you it’s mayhem (no matter how organized we get) and we don’t sleep much during launches.
Then, to diversify the business, I partnered up with the best in the industry to develop and launch our own line of supplements (Hormone Balance Nutritionals). That was another huge (and rewarding) project.
As that came to fruition, the book promotion plan kicked in: hiring new team members, planning, getting the pre-order bonuses ready (video, copy, visuals), and getting promotion partners and affiliates on board. My publisher always says that writing the book is just half the journey. Marketing the book is the second.
Then, it was time to completely revamp Cooking for Balance – the online cooking program. It badly needed a facelift, and for those of you who saw the change, I thank you for your wonderful comments and gratitude. I want to be proud of the work that we put out and this new look and experience will be far more helpful for women to apply the teachings and get their lives back. That project took over 200 hours on my part while working on the book promo and still running the business.
With little breaks in the past months (went to Italy in February to ski but that was stressful as I had so much to do and lost my laptop on one of the flights…), I’ve got to a place of feeling numb, fatigued, short-tempered and frankly, somewhat uninspired and feeling like I don’t care much about anything.
For me, that’s a sign that I am burned out. I felt the same way when I lived in Shanghai all those years back when first diagnosed with Hashimoto’s – I then resigned from my job.
I don’t plan to resign now.
I plan to do a few things to re-instate my health with self-care and love – stuff that works.
Starting with GIVING up CAFFEINE.
How Caffeine Has Affected Me
I’ve not been drinking much coffee as it makes me angry, impatient and my body smells really bad.
But, I have been drinking matcha – a ceremonial green tea. It still contains caffeine (1 teaspoon = 1 shot of espresso) and I’ve found myself drinking more and more of it to get me through the day.
With my history of addictions (and my genetics that make it easy for it to happen…), I’m like a former alcoholic – can’t even have a little bit. It’s very hard to admit it to myself but caffeine has been robbing me of my health and I’ve got to face the truth.
- I get dizzy when I get up (shot adrenals)
- I’m physically weaker and can’t do strength training as well as I used to > it goes back to the adrenals
- I don’t sleep as well (I’ve started progesterone and it’s helping lots but still.. > more on progesterone creams in coming weeks)
- My thyroid isn’t all that happy – I’ve started getting cold hands and feet; a sign of a potential Hashimoto’s flair-up
- My energy tanks in the afternoons (and then I need another matcha)
- I crave caffeine and can’t stop thinking about having something caffeinated – a typical spinning cycle of an addict
Just reading this list makes me cringe.
However, I will not beat myself up for it because I didn’t hit rock bottom and I’m fixing my health proactively.
I want to get my energy naturally from good food, occasional fasting, exercise and solid sleep.
Caffeine is fake energy and that’s especially dangerous when we have no reserves left. It’s like spending credit card money when there is no money in the bank account.
Wean Off or Go Cold Turkey?
To decide how to get off caffeine, you need to be perfectly honest with yourself and determine what type of person you are.
Have you given up bad habits in the past by weaning off them?
Or, do you wean off for 2 days and then find excuses to go back to it? That’s me. I know myself well enough to know that I need to go cold turkey.
But, the side effects are not pretty, especially when you have a business and/or a household to run.
In the past, I would go cold turkey and suffer for 2-3 weeks.
I got a little smarter this time.
Here is a list of things I’ve done this time around that helped a bunch:
Sea salt – I started the day with 1/4 teaspoon sea salt in a glass of water (also added some apple cider vinegar) – this has helped my adrenals and the headaches haven’t been that bad. I repeat that in the afternoons on days I had the headache (first 4 days).
Tyrosine – I’ve been doing 1000 mg of tyrosine x2 (before breakfast and lunch) which is a dopamine precursor. Caffeine gives us a dopamine hit so quitting can result in mood and motivation challenges. It’s been helping because my mood has been good.
Essential Oils – I’ve been experiencing a dull headache (in the past it used to be horrendous) – rubbing a drop of peppermint and lavender oil on the temples, reduced it by 80%. (Be sure the peppermint doesn’t get in your eyes).
Sodium – Juiced a bunch of celery (with cucumber, ginger, and apple) which, same as sea salt, is a source of sodium – that seems to be helping the adrenals. I drank 2 cups per day.
Magnesium – I upped my magnesium (I use Magnesium Replenish) to 800mg/day. I also took magnesium salt baths (Ancient Minerals) and that helped me to feel relaxed and reduced the headache. Never too little magnesium :-).
Napping – I quit over the WE so I didn’t have to deal with the withdrawals during a working week. This allowed me to take a few naps during the day – it felt so good to do that!
Lion’s Mane – the biggest issue in the first few days was the foggy brain. It felt as if my brain was struggling to make neurological connections. Lion’s Mane is a medicinal mushroom (the fresh version is often sold at farmers’ markets or health stores; it looks like a white sponge) that helps with alertness and focus. It helped a bunch. I interchangeably did a combo of Lion’s Mane from Four Sigmatic and a tincture from Host Defense .
Cordyceps – I added cordyceps (medicinal mushrooms) in the form of a “mushroom coffee” from Four Sigmatic for energy and it feels good.
Water – the obvious. Drink at least 70 ounces (2 liters) of filtered water every day.
Be prepared to be in a bad mood, have weird dreams, and sleep poorly. Some people even experience vomiting (that’s rare though).
On the upside:
- You will regain your own energy (generated naturally by the mitochondria) and enjoy it throughout the day.
- Your sleep may improve.
- You may experience less symptoms of estrogen dominance (such as PMS, lumpy boobs, cellulite, fibroids).
- You will have more energy to go back to exercise.
- You will be proud of yourself for not being dependent on a substance.
For more information on detoxing your body naturally…
Make a #MeCare Commitment
One of the best ways to commit to doing something is to make an announcement to a larger group of people. This can be a great motivator to get started and stick to it.
And so I did.
I first recorded a pretty angry (with myself) Facebook Live video talking about how my addiction to matcha tea has led me to feel outright depleted.
I then kicked off the #MeCare commitment with this Facebook post (come on over if you want to join in).
If you prefer Instagram, just follow @hormonebalance and hashtag your posts with #MeCare (you will find others making their commitments already).
The idea is simple:
Most of us know what makes us feel good. Yet, we don’t do it at all or enough. This includes me.
It could be something small like drinking 70oz of water every day to something big like getting off gluten and divorcing sugar.
I hope to see you there!